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You have a great product idea you can really get behind. Your spouse loves it.

Your friends, workmates, clients, and patients encourage you – they want to see more.

Your designer has never been more inspired.

And when it launches, it falls far short of your expectations.

What happened?

Less than enthusiastic response often reveals a mismatch between your product’s promises and your customer’s desires.

And more often than not, this disconnect occurs because you are not your customer.

And neither are those closest to you. Most of the time, friends and family, and even some of the clients you attract, are often just mirrors for your own enthusiasm. Who doesn’t prefer seeing you happy and engaged?

It’s not that you don’t care about your customer. Of course you do.

It’s just that you’re an expert in your field of interest.

And your readers and customers aren’t.

And often, your reasons for fervently believing someone “should” embrace your creation aren’t the same as their reasons for needing or even wanting your creation.

It’s human nature to project our desires and preferences onto others. And because our customer isn’t there in the room with us when we start designing that product or web site, everything we thought we knew about our customers seems to evaporate.

The solution is obvious: you’ve got to find a way to get out of your own head and into the heads of your audience.

How do you do this? [click to continue…]

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A few weeks ago, we talked about How to Know When to Quit, and Seth Godin’s handy little guidebook The Dip.

There’s one more recommendation Seth makes in The Dip to help us know whether to move forward with a project, or quit and move on.

He asks, “Can you become the best?”

If you’re not planning on becoming the best at what you’re engaged in, why continue? Because the point of your entrepreneurial endeavor, Seth reasons, is to get noticed, to get remarked about, or to be purchased, read, consumed, and enjoyed.

And, in today’s fractured marketplace, the only way to achieve any of those things is to become the best in your niche.

Writes Seth:

If you’re doing your best, only your soccer coach cares. If you’re the best in the world, the market cares. The secret, if you have limited resources (don’t we all) is to make ‘world’ small enough that you can actually accomplish that. [click to continue…]

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How often do you talk about yourself when writing for your site?

I ask because we’re getting mixed messages out there.

First you’re told; “Don’t talk about yourself, focus primarily on the needs of your readers and what’s on their minds.”

Then you hear; “You need to tell your story, share more about yourself and your life so you can build rapport with your readers.”

So which is it?

Building an online business is all about finding a hungry crowd and serving up what they’re searching for. And it’s also about reaching out and making personal connections and building relationships. That requires a liberal dose of you, or in this case, me.

So how do the socially awkward connect online? How much do we have to talk about ourselves, really?

And what about the socially adept among us? Can these folks talk about themselves too much?

Are there any rules for this sort of thing? [click to continue…]

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How Building A Web Business is a Lot Like Dating

Karla had a nice site getting very little traffic or attention.

She had posted regularly and done a lot of things right.

And then one day, one of the posts she submitted as a guest post landed on a huge site. Her post was so good, within a week she was being shared by hundreds of people on Facebook and Twitter.

In the biz, we call this “going viral,” and Karla was thrilled.

And for several weeks, her site was flooded with thousands of potential new readers and subscribers.

But Karla’s site just wasn’t ready.

And because Karla’s site wasn’t ready, most of those potential new friends disappeared as quickly as they arrived, very much like a huge wave hitting the beach and retreating within moments – leaving very little in its wake.

A Different Kind of Attraction

Thinking about Karla’s plight reminded me of Jennifer, a woman I’d coached in the mid 90’s on how to put up a website.

Jennifer wanted to sell a program teaching people how to “be ready for the love of their lives.”

I don’t recall all the details of her program, but it involved stuff like candles and fresh sheets — and I blush a little just writing about it.

In her materials she created scenarios like this:

Let’s say you run to the supermarket one morning wearing dirty sweats with greasy, unkempt hair and you unexpectedly run into the man/woman of your dreams in the frozen food section.

In that moment, won’t you wish you had made a bit of an effort to look presentable?

She had a point. It didn’t stop me from wearing sweats to the grocery store, which may explain a lot about my lack of a social life at the time, but I digress.

Her point was obvious: If your goal is meeting your future mate, be ready. Be in the right frame of mind. Make space in your life for that other person.

Turns out Jennifer’s advice is also appropriate when it comes to building an online business.

It seems attracting readers to your site is a lot like dating.

Here’s what you can do to make sure you and your site are ready for your future web suitors. [click to continue…]

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